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'Daughter-in-law', maybe it's something that happened to my house too

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I wonder if things like that happened in my house. When I look at MBC <Daughter of a Strange Country>, I think, 'How can I do that?' They take a look at the camera of other people's homes, so their problems seem so good, but we do not see what is happening next to us. So, it's just a question of 'their problem' and even anger, but is it just 'their problem'?

This is the strange situation of Kim Jae-wook's wife, Park Se-mi. In the last session, as well as the scene of going to a solitary housewife with a heavy body of 8 months pregnant, the viewers have cooperated with the things that continued as soon as they arrived there. However, it was not unusual for Byeon-mi, who came to visit her maternity clinic with her siblings to leave her son, Jiwoo.

She wanted her child not to give a snack to feed her, but her mother - in - law had called her since she had bought bread from the house. After all, the daughter-in-law was upset when he saw a child who did not eat rice. And while Byeonmi and Kim Jae-wook went out, there was a real snack time. My parents bought me ice cream, which I had never eaten before, as well as bread.

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But there is a problem to think about here once. I think this is only for their family. Observing from an objective point of view, the series of situations are weird and even causing anger, but perhaps such a strange situation is something we are also experiencing.

It is not a strange thing to see a mother-in-law who keeps a snack when she is pretty. Especially parents who have passed through the days when they could not even live in the past could have suffered happiness in seeing what is in the child's mouth. It is true that the appearance of the parents who think only of the child was the value of the old generation who always wanted the second child to think well.

So, these strange landscapes are not just a personal problem, but they are cumbersome and cumbersome for you. Of course, it may have been something that would have been done in the past, but in fact it is wrong. So what we need now is to look again at the 'things that have to be done and taken for granted' and recognize and change the problem.

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The men 's panels observing these scenes in the studio told me that there was a difference between bread and rice, but it was ignorant to the daughter - in - law who knew that the sweet taste would not eat if the child was tame. But I do not think that I should allow that to my parents, who sometimes look after my child. At the end of my husband Kim Jae-wook, it is said that when my parents are fully parenting, it is my story. Now, I was right. It was the right story.

In addition, in the obstetrics and gynecology department, it was also strange scenery that the father-in-law urged the mother to encourage the natural cesarean section for the safety of the daughter-in-law. The hospital warned of the risk of uterine rupture if it was wrong, but the father-in-law repeated the story that it was good for the baby to give birth to natural. After all, his daughter-in-law showed tears, saying that he was thinking only of his grandchildren.

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It is the husbands who have an important role here. In the face of the 'gobu conflict', it seems that the daughter-in-law (the mother-in-law is also the daughter-in-law) and the daughter-in-law have a surrogate conflict instead of husbands who have turned back to the problem in the patriarchal world. In the end, it is not a matter of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but a problem that arises from the fact that husbands do not take part in housework and do not play a role.

The strange feeling of seeing the daughter-in-law of a strange country is not just about their anger and their anger. Rather, I must look back on my own situation and make it an opportunity for us to change through its objectification. I hope that it will be a chance to reflect on myself as well as my parents and generations.